Composing Life Lessons from Music

Composing Life Lessons from Music Suzy S. The benefits of music are well-documented when it comes to instilling skills and confidence in young children here, TakeLessons instructor Bryan B. explains how music can translate into career success for adults as well! ____________________________________________ Recently, I went on a two week trip to sunny Northridge, California, where I got to work with amazing artists and teachers to help develop my craft. What is my craft you say? Singing more specifically, opera singing. The program I took part in, OperaWorks, provided me with much more insight than I initially expected. Living in an age of doubt, I immediately felt like it might not have been worth my money. But after two weeks I was pleased to see that there were noticeable changes not only in my music, but also in my life. Lets take a closer look at how my training in music affected my life and my world: Opera-ism #1: I am AWESOME. This was a technique I learned to help prepare myself for an audition. By giving myself a pep talk before walking through the door, I am able to walk in with confidence. So how does this apply to my life? Well, aside from teaching, I have a normal day-to-day job in sales. And as part of that job, I have to provide people with a service or product. This can be really nerve-wracking because I hate sales people myself. I recently went to buy a car and the worst part about the whole experience was the salesman. I already knew I was going to buy a car, I had already researched the car that I wanted and he just seemed to get in the way. Because of experiences like these, I try to steer myself away from being a “pushy” sales guy. When I applied my “I am AWESOME!” pep talk to my day-to-day job, I found that it was a lot easier for me to sell to people without being pushy or being pushed over. I was able to confidently talk about products, build relationships with my clients and actively listen and respond to their concerns. Essentially, being AWESOME allowed me to be myself when I was on the phone, and let my personality shine. What I learned from this is products dont sell people do. Opera-ism #2: Music is not whats written on the page, it is what the performers make of it. The intention of the composer was not that the performer sing the song exactly how it was written, in a robotic fashion, but to add expression and interpretation to it. This came to light for me when I sang an operatic aria (Love Sounds the Alarm from Acis and Galatea), which is a love song.   Rather than expressing lovey-dovey emotions, this aria became a war speech in OperaWorks. I was inspiring a nation to defend itself against its enemies. The whole meaning of the song changed, but it was really effective. The real life experience happened in learning my “pitch.”   You can always hear the sales pitch coming when youre on the phone with a salesman.   Well, I realized its not about the words, its about the meaning. Upon returning, having already memorized the pitch, I started to implement the meaning of the words, and tie them back to the desires of my customers. What Ive learned as a performer has more than affected my life it has changed me. I went into OperaWorks as an insecure performer and came out a confident man. The results speak for themselves. My performance at work has improved, and my personal life is much happier and free. This just goes to show that things shouldnt be taken at face value. What you learn in school might actually apply to real life. Who knew? Bryan B. TakeLessons Instructor